white_dragon That's awful, mate. My thoughts are with all involved. We have a family friend who was diagnosed with bowel cancer. Had a couple of ops, sorted. Then they found a shadow in his lung. Removed it, sorted. Then they found it had spread to his lymphnodes. He is just waiting to die, now. Bloody awful stuff, so I do empathise. The memories are something, aren't they, but it doesn't take away the pain?