cordshoes I know it's a serious subject, but I still read that in the voice of Paul Sykes.
You're totally right, thats my mantra and thats the source of it.
I said to my kids other day, dont take peoples word for it, go and have a look.
I mean, I dont go round chinning sharks and randomers all over the world like Sykes but fair play to him, he went and had a look (allegedly)